I had gently touched him on his shoulder, the same thing I had done to several other folks that morning. However, no one else had pulled away from me. This man reacted differently because He had injured his shoulder a few days before. He pulled away from me because I had touched his sore spot.
Suddenly I understood how physical injuries can teach us about spiritual wounds. A person with a wounded spirit will react abnormally to an innocent comment that wouldn’t hurt a healthy person. The slightest touch on their hurting area causes them to recoil in pain and lash out at others. And that’s why hurting people will hurt other people. They are protecting their sore spots to keep from being hurt again.
How can you detect when people have inner wounds? They are typically in a bad mood. If you make an innocent comment that triggers a painful memory, they will either lash out or withdraw in pain. That’s not a normal reaction.
A person with a toothache cannot fall in love because it’s hard to love others if you are hurting inside. All your attention goes to your pain. A wounded person’s greatest need is to be healed, and healing typically begins by forgiving the person who hurt you.
God can heal you. He says, “For I will restore you to health and I will heal your wounds” (Jer. 30:17). The sooner you deal with the issue that hurt you, or forgive the person who hurt you, the faster you will heal. Two weeks after I touched my friend’s sore spot, his shoulder was healed—and that’s when he started acting normally again. www.kentcrockett.blogspot.com www.makinglifecount.net
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