Sunday, September 28, 2014

The Marriage Repair Shop

It’s easy to get married, but staying married requires maintenance. Suppose your car engine starts running rough. Instead of taking it to the repair shop, you ignore the problem. You think, “Well, the car is still running, so I can wait a while before I fix it.” Then your transmission starts acting up, but you don’t fix it. The “check engine” light comes on, but you ignore it.

Later you notice a trail of black smoke following your car, but you don’t fix it. Then you notice that your engine is running hot. By now you realize it’s going to cost a lot of money to repair your vehicle. You say to yourself, “This old clunker has too many problems. I’ll just get rid of it and get a new one.” You think that your problems will be solved by getting another vehicle, never realizing the next car is going to need repairing too.

Maintaining a marriage is like maintaining a car. If we will fix the problems as they arise, it will keep running smoothly and we can enjoy the ride. But if we don’t make the needed repairs we might say, “This marriage has too many problems. I’ll just get rid of my old clunker and get me new one.” God wants us to take our marriages to the Marriage Repair Shop for proper maintenance. A marriage can’t be repaired until we first correct the three causes of marriage breakdowns.

Cause #1: A Selfish Spirit.  Selfishness is the source of 99% of marriage conflicts. Adrian Rogers said, “The best marriage in the world is two servants married to each other and the worst marriage in the world is two bosses married to each other. Every marriage requires two funerals and one wedding. The funerals are for the husband and wife to die to their selfishness.”

Cause #2: Unrealistic Expectations. We enter marriage with a picture in our minds of the perfect marriage. But after we get married, we soon discover that we didn’t marry a perfect picture but an imperfect person. After we make this discovery, we will either tear up the picture or we will tear up the person. And that’s why husbands and wives fight—they’re tearing up the person instead of tearing up the picture. The solution is to tear up the picture of a trouble-free marriage and deal with reality.   

Cause #3:  Different Upbringings. The husband and wife grew up in completely different nests. Each learns to do things differently and each are programmed to do react a certain way. The differences in the way we were raised can become a source of conflict. However, if we will choose the best ideas from both nests and learn from the mistakes that were made, we can build a better nest—and live happily ever after.

READ THIS SERMONJONAH part 3 “The God of Another Chance” by Kent Crockett

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Monday, September 22, 2014

Everyone Has Problems

A man walked into a psychiatrist’s office with a fried egg on top of his head and a strip of bacon over each ear. The counselor asked, “What can I do for you?” The man replied, “I’ve got a problem with my brother.”

Pointing the finger at someone else is not the way to solve your problem.
Are you discouraged by a trial you’re going through? It will help to remember that everyone has to deal with problems. What I am dealing with may not be the same problem that you are facing, but everyone has challenges. Here are three things to keep in mind.

1. Most problems are fixable. Do what you can do to resolve the problem. Diagnose the situation, be willing to do whatever is necessary, and take the steps to fix it. If the situation is completely out of your hands, surrender it into God’s hands and trust Him for the strength to endure it.

2. Many problems are imaginary. We make life harder than it’s supposed to be by magnifying our problems through our imaginations. The problem isn’t our problem. The real problem is the way we think. This is why we must control our thoughts, keep the right perspective and look at the positive side of our circumstances. (see Philippians 4:4-8, 2 Cor. 10:5).

3. All problems are an opportunity. Trials are simply challenges to move us to a higher level of spiritual growth. When we overcome the problem, we are promoted to a higher position and a better place.

No matter what you are going through, trust the God who is bigger than your problem. He will show you what to do and will give you the strength to get through it. “If God be for us, who can be against us?” (Romans 8:31). www.kentcrockett.blogspot.com  www.makinglifecount.net


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Saturday, September 13, 2014

The 5 Least Prayed Prayers

I’ve been in the ministry for nearly thirty years and have heard hundreds, if not thousands, of people’s prayers. Here are five prayers that I’ve rarely heard anyone pray.

#5 Praying for God to send laborers into His harvest (Luke 10:2). This isn’t a prayer to send missionaries to another country but for the Holy Spirit to move on every believer to witness to others wherever they may be.

#4 Praying for those in authority over us (1 Tim. 2:1-2). This means praying every day for governmental authorities, our employers, and pastors. We pray that their hearts will be right with God and they will make correct decisions “that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life.” If we will do this, God says it will bring peace into our lives.

#3 Praying for God to give supernatural wisdom (James 1:5). “If anyone lacks wisdom let him ask of God” (v.5). Is there anyone who does NOT lack wisdom? Notice that God wants us to first realize that we don’t have it. The beginning of wisdom is to ask for it. (Prov. 4:7). This is not just a prayer for whenever we are in trouble but something we should pray for every day.

#2 Praying for those who mistreat us (Luke 6:28). Jesus specifically told us to pray for our enemies who treat us wrongfully. We don’t want to do it because they have hurt us, but if we would obey His instructions we might see their hearts change along with their behavior. If we don’t pray for the Holy Spirit to convict their hearts they will likely continue in their mistreatment.

And the #1 Least Prayed Prayer—thanking God for our health when we aren’t sick (Luke 17:12-18). Ten lepers asked Jesus to heal them. After Jesus healed all ten, only one returned to thank Him. Notice the two different prayers—a request for healing by 10 and thankfulness for health by 1. Jesus was grieved that the other nine didn’t thank Him for their health. I’ve heard multitudes of people ask God for healing but hardly anyone thanks God for their health every day. Every Christian should pray one of two prayers every day—either healing for sickness or thankfulness for health. Maybe if we would sincerely thank God every day for when we are healthy we would be sick a lot less.

NEW SERMONJONAH, part 2 “When You Hit Bottom” by Kent Crockett

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